 If Youâre Still Second-Guessing Yourself, Thereâs a Reason.
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It isnât because you lack insight, strength, or self-awareness.
Itâs because survival once became the organising system of your life.
When your environment was unpredictable, your nervous system learned to pause, scan, and override certainty before acting.
That adaptation kept you safe.
But survival strategies donât automatically turn off when danger ends â so self-doubt follows you into decisions, boundaries, and self-expression.
So self-doubt follows you into decisions, boundaries, and self-expression.
Not because you donât know who you are â
but because knowing once carried consequences.
This isnât a mindset issue.
And it isnât something you fix by âtrusting yourself more.â
Self-trust returns when the system that learned fear is given a new reference point.
Not through force or positive thinking â but through safety, repetition, and lived experience.
Thatâs the work we do here.
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The Environment Where Self Trust is Built
Self-trust doesnât return through effort.
It returns through experience.
After narcissistic dynamics, your system didnât lose confidence â
it learned to protect you by staying alert.
âTo pause before speaking.
âTo second-guess decisions.
âTo scan for consequences before trusting yourself.
That wasnât weakness.
It was adaptation.
And adaptations donât dissolve just because the relationship ends.
Why Insight Alone Isnât Enough
You can understand exactly what happened.
You can name the patterns.
You can see the manipulation clearly.
And still feel unsure of yourself.
Thatâs because what was learned in a relational system
has to be unlearned in relationship.
âNot through pressure.
âNot through performance.
âNot by being told to âtrust yourself more.â
But by repeatedly experiencing:
âBeing believed
âBeing reflected accurately
âBeing respected without consequence
âBeing allowed to take up space without backlash
This is how the nervous system updates.
This is how self-trust comes back online.
Shifted Sisters is not therapy.
Itâs not a support group that keeps you stuck in processing.
And itâs not a content library you consume alone.
It is a trauma-informed identity environment.
Inside this environment, something changes quietly but powerfully.
You stop outsourcing certainty.
You stop needing permission to feel sure.
You stop bracing for impact in connection.
Not because you were told to,
but because your system no longer needs to protect you from people.
This is the environment Shifted Sisters was built to provide.
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What Working Inside Shifted Sisters⢠Looks Like
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This isnât about âshowing up better.â
And it isnât about fixing yourself.
Itâs about giving your nervous system enough consistent, accurate experience that self-trust no longer has to be forced.
Inside Shifted Sisters, the work happens quietly, through structure, rhythm, and relational safety.
This Is a Community, But Itâs Not Unstructured
Youâre not dropped into a group and left to figure it out.Â
âNo pressure to perform vulnerability
âPredictability without pressure
âStructure that lets your system settle
How the Work Actually Happens
Self-trust rebuilds through repetition, not intensity.
Inside the community, you repeatedly experience:
âBeing understood without having to over-explain
âHaving your reality reflected accurately
âSpeaking without being corrected, minimised, or challenged
âTaking up space without emotional consequence
Each of these moments gives your system new data.
This Is Not About Processing the Past Forever
Shifted Sisters doesnât keep you analysing what happened.
And it doesnât centre your identity around survival.
The focus is on what your system learned and how it updates when the conditions change.
Thatâs why the emphasis is on:
âIdentity recalibration, not story-retelling
âNervous system safety, not emotional catharsis
âIntegration into daily life, not insight alone
Youâre here to cope with support, not in isolation.
What Changes Over Time
Without trying to make anything happen, you may notice:
âDecisions feel quieter, not heavier
âBoundaries form without rehearsing them
âYour sense of reality stabilises
âYou stop checking yourself for mistakes that arenât there
Not because you worked harder,Â
but because your system no longer expects punishment for being yourself.
Not because you were told to change.
Not because you pushed yourself to âmove on.â
But because your system is no longer surrounded by conditions that require self-protection.
When safety becomes consistent, something quiet happens.
âď¸ You stop bracing.
âď¸Â You stop scanning.
âď¸Â You stop holding yourself back just in case.
Self-trust doesnât need to be forced here.
It returns naturally, as your nervous system learnsâthrough experienceâthat you are allowed to exist without consequence.
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How Shifted Sisters⢠Is Structured to Support Real Change
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This page is here to help you understand how the space is held, so you can decide whether it feels right for you.
This community is designed to be steady, not intense.
Supportive, not consuming.
Consistent, not demanding.
Thereâs no finish line to reach and no way to fall behind.
Shifted Sisters is built to give your nervous system what it needs most after survival:
predictability, clarity, and choice.
This Is Ongoing, Not Rushed
Healing and identity repair donât follow a timeline.
Inside Shifted Sisters, there is:
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No expectation to âprogressâ on a schedule
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No pressure to attend everything
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No sense of being behind if you step back
You stay for as long as the space supports you. And you leave when it no longer does.
Nothing about your participation is graded, monitored, or evaluated.
What Participation Actually Looks Like
You decide how visible or quiet you want to be.
Some women attend live spaces regularly.
Some listen without speaking.
Some step back for weeks, then return.
All of that is welcome.
You are never required to:
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Share personal details
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Speak before youâre ready
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Explain yourself
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Justify your pace
This is a space where choice is part of the healing.
Rhythm & Structure
The community follows a clear, predictable rhythm so your system knows what to expect.
That includes:
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Regularly held facilitated spaces
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Clear boundaries around communication and tone
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Guidance that keeps conversations grounded and regulated
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Moderation that prevents emotional overwhelm or chaos
Structure here is not restrictive. Itâs what allows your system to relax. Nothing changes suddenly here. You always know whatâs happening and why.
Support Without Dependence
Shifted Sisters is designed to support self-leadership, not replace it.
Youâre not encouraged to rely on constant reassurance.
And youâre not positioned as needing the space to function.
Support is available â but autonomy is respected.
The intention is for your internal steadiness to grow,
not for dependence on external validation to form.
Commitment & Investment
Shifted Sisters is offered as an ongoing membership, rather than a fixed-length program.
That allows you to:
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Enter without pressure
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Stay while itâs supportive
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Step away when you no longer need the container
Youâre not locked into outcomes.
Youâre simply choosing access to a held environment.
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Margi is simply the best! I was in denial about my situation and the abuse I had suffered.
I had no idea how to proceed without my husband. After working with Margi, I believed I could do anything! My self-esteem improved and I feel so positive about the future ahead. I believe in myself and feel I as though I am moving forward and itâs exciting.
I have a great life full of freedom and hope. I have even started a new job in something I am passionate about.
- Ella
If you need to change your personal game plan and have exceptional life changes that surpass your current state based on your challenges, Margi has the skills and kindness to help you discover who you are meant to be and then you can put the cherry on top. I found all the information that only a skilled, informed and experienced coach possess, and I was able to fly.
-Â Tray
I was able to unwrap a lifetime of programming, and finally get off the treadmill at the same time. I have learned to trust myself to say the "right thing" and this has been a constant battle all my life. After a few sessions, I saw a kind and sympathetic coach who understands how paralyzing and difficult narcissistic abuse is. Margiâs insights and follow up handouts really helped me gain control back of my life.
-Â Deborah
Entering the Shifted Sisters⢠Community
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This page isnât here to convince you.
Itâs here to show you how to enter the space if you choose to, clearly, calmly, and without pressure.
Nothing on this page requires an immediate decision.
What Membership Includes
When youâre part of Shifted Sisters, you have access to a held environment designed to support nervous system safety, identity recalibration, and self-trust over time.
Inside the membership, this includes:
âFacilitated community spaces held with clear boundaries
âTrauma-informed guidance grounded in nervous system safety
âA predictable rhythm that allows your system to settle
â Language and frameworks that stabilise reality and reduce self-doubt
âA private space where participation is always optional
Itâs about being inside the right conditions long enough for your system to update.
How Membership Works
Shifted Sisters is offered as an ongoing monthly membership.
There is:
â No fixed end date
â No required timeline
â No expectation to âcompleteâ anything
You can remain in the community for as long as it feels supportive, and step away when it no longer does.
â You donât need permission to leave.
âAnd you donât need to justify staying.
Investment
The founding membership rate is:
$77 per month
This rate reflects:
â Ongoing access to the community
â The structure and facilitation that hold the space safely
âA steady, contained environment rather than one-off support
As a founding member, this rate is locked in for you.
There are no surprise increases while your membership remains active.
Youâre not committing to change â only to access.
Before You Decide
â You donât need to feel certain to join.
â You donât need to know exactly what will change.
â You only need to notice whether something in you feels steadier when you imagine being inside this kind of space.
â If now isnât the right time, thatâs okay.
â The door doesnât close behind you.Â
A Gentle Invitation
If youâd like to enter the Shifted Sisters⢠community, youâre welcome to do so.
If youâd rather sit with it longer, thatâs welcome too.
After You Join
Once you enter the community, youâll receive:
â Immediate access to the private space
â Clear orientation on how everything works
âGuidance on where to begin, without pressure to participate
âYou can arrive quietly.
âYou can take your time.
Working with Margi has been nothing short of transformative. Before our sessions, I was engulfed in confusion and self-doubt, struggling to understand why I felt so trapped and diminished by toxic relationships. Margiâs compassionate and insightful approach illuminated the patterns of narcissistic behavior that had been sabotaging my entire life. Through her guidance, I learned to separate myself from the destructive influences that had eroded my confidence and well-being.
- Veronica
Today, I am in a place of strength and clarity, having reclaimed my happiness and health. The journey wasnât easy, but Margiâs unwavering support made all the difference. Her work has not only guided me through a difficult time but has also inspired me to continue nurturing my well-being and pursuing a life aligned with my true self. I am immensely grateful for the emotional healing and growth Iâve achieved through her help, and I carry these lessons forward with hope and confidence. One of the most powerful lessons Iâve learned through working with Margi is the truth behind the saying, "You do better when you know better." If youâre someone who is committed to understanding yourself and growing, coaching with Margi is perfect for you.
-Â Kit
Working with Margi allowed me to transition from merely discussing my issues to actively addressing and resolving them. Itâs crucial to do the work, write out your experiences, understand how you fell into unhealthy patterns, and recognize that itâs not your fault. By identifying the types of people and situations that led to those patterns, and learning how to handle them in both personal and professional contexts, you gain valuable insights. I implemented these lessons and practiced the skills Iâd developed. I focused on auditing my relationships, meeting new people, and distinguishing between friends and acquaintances. Margi teaches you how to move forward with a life that youâve always dreamed of and truly deserve.
-Â Rosh
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