You left the relationship.
You’ve done the therapy.
You’ve read the books.
You know it’s over.
But inside?
Your body still reacts like the danger is happening now.
If you’re still…
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Replaying conversations
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Feeling anxious when someone takes too long to reply
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Freezing or shutting down to keep the peace
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Apologising without knowing why
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Second-guessing everything
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Feeling “on edge” around tone shifts or conflict
This isn’t failure.
This is your survival brain doing exactly what it was trained to do.
And now, we retrain it — gently, safely, and at your pace.
Your body isn’t malfunctioning
it’s following old neurological pathways that once kept you alive.
Narcissistic abuse reshapes the brain’s safety patterns.
It teaches your nervous system to anticipate threat.
Even long after the threat has ended.
But the brain is rewritable.
Your identity is reclaimable.
Your future is yours again.
Healing Isn’t About Trying Harder
It’s About Teaching Your Brain a New Way to Be
The Freedom Shift™ is different because it:
✔ Doesn’t require reliving trauma
✔ Doesn’t analyze the narcissist
✔ Doesn’t rely on willpower
✔ Doesn’t force you to retell painful stories
✔ Doesn’t use mindset to override survival
Most approaches work from the neck up — by talking, analyzing, or reframing.
But trauma doesn’t live in your thoughts.
It lives in your nervous system.
Inside The Freedom Shift™, we work at the level where trauma formed — so your brain, your beliefs, and your identity can finally transform.
This is the difference between coping… and healing.
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“No one else has offered the clarity, depth, and impact that Margi brings. She helped me understand myself in a new way and guided me toward who I’m meant to be. The space she holds and the change she facilitates are extraordinary.”
- L.S.
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“After doing lots of therapy and not getting anywhere, I found Margi. Her insight helped me see myself clearly and grow in ways I hadn’t realised I needed. Now I set goals, enjoy healthy relationships, trust myself again and love my life.”
- M.I.
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“Working with Margi was a turning point. She helped me reconnect with my values, my wellbeing, and the future I longed for. With her guidance, I now make decisions that feel aligned with who I really am, moving forward with confidence, and purpose.”
- M.H.
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“Working with Margi has been life-changing. She helped me move through overwhelming emotions and come out stronger on the other side. I’m finally stepping into opportunities I once thought were impossible. I feel capable, grounded, and empowered in ways I never imagined.”
- Y.R.
Imagine Waking Up and Feeling…
Safe. Steady. Yourself.
You speak without rehearsing every word.
You set boundaries without guilt.
You trust yourself — deeply and consistently.
You feel grounded, calm, and in command of your life.
You stop apologising for existing.
You stop giving your power away.
You stop abandoning yourself to keep the peace.
This isn’t imagining.
This is what happens when the brain learns safety again.
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Private, neuroscience-based coaching for women ready to move beyond recovery and live from calm, confidence, and self-trust.
Choose a time below that feels right for you.
Each session is confidential and personalized to where you are in your journey.
👉 Once you book, you’ll receive a confirmation email with everything you need to feel fully prepared for our session together.
🕊 You’re safe here. This is the first step toward peace that stays.
FROM SURVIVING TO FREE - MY STORY
For forty years, I lived with a narcissist who made me doubt everything about myself.
I tried therapy, books, meditation, support groups - nothing touched the survival patterns living in my body.
Then I discovered the neuroscience of self-image.
I realised:
My brain wasn’t responding to facts - it was responding to the beliefs trauma created.
That moment changed everything.
And now, I help women rebuild the freedom I once thought was impossible.
This Is for You If You’re Ready To…
• Stop living in survival mode
• Retrain your body to feel safe
• Rebuild self-trust
• Release freeze, fawn, and overthinking
• Reclaim your identity
• Heal without retelling trauma
Not for you if:
• You want talk therapy
• You want to analyze the narcissist
• You aren’t ready for emotional safety
• You want a mindset-only approach
